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Holidays with Pets?

24/8/2015

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Dreya's World - Holidays with Pets
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We recently came back from holiday, and while I was away I started to wonder about what others do when they go on vacation, especially dog owners...

For the first time in about four years we decided we would have a holiday this summer; a proper one, not a 'I'm not at work but I'm holidaying from home' staycation, but one where you actually travel to somewhere different and live there for a while, enjoying the new sights, sounds, experiences and relax a little.

This was the first holiday we've had since moving to France and also the first holiday since owning our second dog, Papy, so it was always going to be a bit of an adventure into the unknown. And it was this that got me wondering...

What do other folks do when they want to go away? Do they pack up the whole family (including pets) and leave en masse, or are other alternatives used?

For us and our circumstances there was only ever going to be one set of choices we'd make – find a self-catering cottage, or 'gîte' here in France, that takes dogs and set off in the car to somewhere new, while some very kind and generous daily help fed the birds for us and kept the veggies watered. That was going to be 'interesting' enough for us!

But what do you do? Do beloved pets get found a loving temporary home while you go away, be it pet-sitters or professional boarding arrangements? Do you get house-sitters? If you take a pet with you, what sort of living arrangement works; cottage, pet-friendly hotel, camping? And most importantly how do you all cope with it? Is this an annual habit that everyone loves or does chaos and trauma ensue? I'd love to know.

For us, our first dog, Lady, was fine – she took it in her stride as an old hand and even reverted to the behaviour of a younger dog, with new smells and things to explore. Papy however, was a little bit more of a handful.

We knew the car travel itself would be a possible challenge as the distance would be greater than anything we'd ever done with him before. Up to this point most of our trips had been local and though he'd done OK, it had all been a bit 'exciting' for him. I'm pleased to say he did great in the car, after the initial restlessness of the new, he settled down during the big motorway stretch, so we were really pleased with that, even though we'd booked somewhere only a couple of hours or so away.

Meeting other dogs had always been a bit exciting too, but by the end of the week the gîte's owners' dog was less new and more like a potential friend. And a new place to stay and sleep wasn't that tricky either it turned out.

The one thing we did learn about him was that he's more upset by volumes of noise, traffic and people than we'd realised. We've taken him new places since we've had him of course – the vets naturally, walks other than the two daily ones – but when we attempted a walk from a village with tourist traffic and noise, we discovered he was exceedingly nervous, so much so that we had to abandon the attempt and return back to our holiday home. There was a bit too much shaking and hyperactivity for us all I'm afraid.

Anyway, we all live and learn and he was soon back to his normal self. Luckily we found another walk the following day where the starting point was a lot calmer for him and he did brilliantly. So we've learnt for the future, both what to avoid and where we may need to attempt to work to help him improve.

But all this of course got me to pondering, so please let me know what you do on your holidays, especially if you're a pet owner; I'm so interested to know.


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Jasmine Ann link
24/8/2015 03:40:43 pm

When we had our dog we either took him with us to a dog friendly cottage holiday in UK or if he could not travel with us left him with a lovely friend/dogsitter who he knew well. She had two dogs he liked and he had a lot of fun! However some of the best holidays were when we took him with us. He was good in the car and loved exploring a new place! We decided we couldn't leave him in kennels so at that time these were our alternatives.

If we had a dog now I don't know what we would do if we were travelling and could not take him. We no longer know anyone who we could leave him with. An alternative I think may be a professional dogsitter if I found one I trusted.

By the way our dog was not at all good in the car when we first got him but we all worked with him for months to help him overcome his fear and he got to really , really love the car! So maybe with Papy a very gradual increase in new walks and new things with positive reinforcement-reward based- might be helpful? I don't know his needs but just a thought.

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DreyaB link
24/8/2015 03:53:09 pm

Thanks so much Jasmine. When we were in the UK with Lady we did much the same, UK holiday cottages or left with a trusted friend or relative. It's not as simple here in France unfortunately and we feel the same about kennels, especially as Papy was in the rescue kennels for 14 months.
I was thinking any work we would do with Papy would need to be very gradual too. He's learnt so much from us just through repetition and praise so far. We just need to find new places to take him that begin on the quiet side and then others to gradually increase things. I guess it would allow us to see more of France! :)
Thanks so much for taking a look and being the first to comment...

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Diana
25/8/2015 02:56:14 pm

I haven't really gone on an official vacation since Toby's arrival. He needs to be with me wherever I go. Though Toby loves to stay in motels, he has become a bit unpredictable around strangers (as in snapping at them). His separation anxiety makes it impossible for me to leave him with a dog-sitter. So, for now, we don't venture too far from home. I'm so glad you had a nice vacation and that you are so thoughtful when it comes to the four-legged members of your family.

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DreyaB link
25/8/2015 03:25:22 pm

I'm sorry to hear you haven't been able to go on holiday, (with or without Toby) but knowing you Diana the needs of any animal will be at the heart of any of your decisions. I hadn't realised Toby had separation anxiety, he always seems so happy and alive when I've seen him in your photos. I guess that's because you treat him so well. Roughly knowing of your rural home, not venturing too far away may be more of a blessing than a curse in the end for you. Thank you for your lovely feedback and for taking the time to stop by... :0)

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Sandu KS
26/8/2015 11:46:10 am

I tend to travel close to home. That way I don't have to worry about finding to watch my pets. Now that I have two smaller dogs, if I travel further, they come with me. Last time I had someone watch my dogs, they didn't do a very good job.

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DreyaB link
27/8/2015 05:36:23 am

I'm sorry to hear that your last pet-sitter didn't do a very good job for you. We all care so much about our animals that the process of letting someone else look after them seems to be a very tricky one. I'm not sure where I am now there's anyone with the right circumstances and experience that I know who could do that for us and the dogs. I guess taking pets with us if possible is the best idea. Thanks so much for reading and commenting. :0)

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